Life has a way of delivering wounds that can linger, sometimes by the hands of others. I think we’ve all been there—left feeling raw or hurt by actions that just don’t make sense or seem unfair. It’s not easy to carry these kinds of wounds, especially when they come from people close to us. But lately, I’ve been thinking about forgiveness, not as an easy fix or as a way to “just get over it,” but as a way to heal myself, to lighten my own heart.
This morning, I sat with my thoughts and offered a prayer, and I thought I’d share it here. It’s a simple prayer, really—nothing fancy. It’s about letting go of the things that tie us to pain and choosing to hope for happiness, not just for myself but for others too. I know forgiveness isn’t always easy, but I’ve realized that carrying resentment can weigh me down more than it affects anyone else.
So here it is, my prayer for forgiveness:
Dear God please here me and help Katarina,
Today, I come to You with a heart that’s been through some things. I’m holding hurts that I’m ready to let go of, but I need Your help. Please guide me as I forgive those who have hurt me, not because I condone their actions, but because I want freedom in my own heart.
I don’t want to carry bitterness. I want to feel peace. I want to release these burdens and make room for joy again. And I also ask that You bring peace to those who have hurt me. Maybe they’re dealing with struggles of their own, things I can’t see. Let them find happiness, too, so they don’t need to hurt others in their journey.
I ask You to help me see people as You do, with kindness and compassion. To let forgiveness be a strength that protects my spirit and to walk forward with a lighter heart.